> I'm sorry that it's taken me so long to say something. I'm especially sorry 
> because I very much enjoy Penny and she's not posted a single thing to the 
> lyst since then.  Maybe because she was hurt by the words.  Not everyone 
> complains in public when they've been hurt.  Or maybe because she was hurt 
> that no spoke up in her defense.  I hope she's still here to read this.
> 
> Carol Mc
I was upset by the post Carol Mc quoted from Neil, but said nothing
specific about it because I was upset by a lot of what was going on at
about the same time, and because Neil's posts suggest he wouldn't care
if I had said anything. He takes pride in being obstreporous sometimes. 
I didn't think Penny might interpret silence as a support for him, as I
have frequently praised her. 
One of the main reasons I've been so upset about the list arguements
lately is that people who I had been in the habit of respecting, such as
Neil, said things to other people I found distressing. I'd rather put up
with trolls than a things getting nasty between people I know. 
I also want to thank everyone for trying to calm things down-- it's been
a lot better the last few days. As you can see, I'm willing to open my
mouth again.